I'm going a bit crazy at the moment. I have been living in my mother's house for over two months now while my husband is still interstate finishing up work, house etc. I have seen him 8 days in this two months and that is hard, not just on me but the kids too.
I just want him to hurry up and get down here, I need my own house. It is so frustrating living in my mother's house, seriously if you knew her you would understand. She seems to think sometimes that she can talk/scream at me like I'm a child, not a peer who has her own family to raise. Yes she is doing us a favor by letting us stay here but she has made no accommodations for us.
She constantly complains on toys, noise, kids watching tv (the loungeroom is the only one with decent reception and she has foxtel so nick jr and no they don't watch it all day and sometimes I put a dvd on in my room).
I'm buying my own food, cooking mine and the kids meals, doing my own washing, dishes and hers, I even scrubbed her washing machine coz it was disgusting seriously build up of everything yuck.
I'm so angry and annoyed at her and all the memories of the crap she put me through are coming back and I get so cranky. It is making me feel sad and down.
She is the only thing that is making me regret this move, all my family are here and they are great, but no room for us and it is a big ask. I think what annoys me the most is she is soooo lazy, and plays the victim always. Like this morning she was angry at my lil bro for being late to work and went around slamming doors at 6:30 in the morning and woke up both the kids and when I told her to be considerate of them she went on a rant about how shes damned is she does/don't. I could really go on forever about her but I really don't want to. I need my husband to hurry up so I can have space, and not have to notice what she is like.