Well the time has come, and dd wants to be Confirmed. She will be 9 at the time and it is a pretty big decision but she really wants to.
I need a Sponsor for her, though. How do you choose? I thought I chose a good God Mother for her, someone I had known for years, but she has not seen dd since '08 and never seems keen, always has reasons not to catch up despite not working (school age kids) and living nearby.
So how do you ensure the person you choose is the right person?