Jakios - ofcourse I don't think that way. How ridiculous does it sound!?
Bisexuality 'exists' - it is REAL, you can touch it, see it, feel it, hear it.
Comparing it to a belief in a god (something that is intangible) is absurd...and again detracts from the conversation at hand.
If you don't have innate bisexual desires, then you don't. Simple.
I think using the term 'exists' or that you don't 'believe' in "it" - has added confusion.
Last edited by FiveInTheBed; 26-03-2012 at 11:06.
ETA. I was making a general statement, and at no time directed it at you. I've been on the Hub a long time now, and I don't resort to petty name calling, so I would appreciate it if you calmed down.
And FYI I don't disriminate in the least. I have friends of all genders of all sexual orientations and no one is less than or better than anyone else. The day I have a child and if she or he one day comes to me to say that they are gay or bisexual then there is no way I could possibly love them any less. It will make no difference to how I feel about them. So yeah .. doesn't seem to me that I disriminate.
The earth is flat lambjam, ok!!
FirstTimeMummy - you're saying it's ridiculous to assert no one is really straight while in the same breath saying there's no such thing as bisexuality?
I don't understand why people are allowed to have opinions that are openly homophobic (not referring to anyone in particular here) when IMO it's the same as being racist or sexist? That's not on, but when it comes to homophobia, *I* get told to ease up, it's just an opinion?
I can't come here and say being black is a choice, or being a Jew is a choice, or being a female is a choice (and nor should I be able to) without expecting some defensive comments in response, can I?
I dont get why everyone finds it so hard to understand what I am saying. I don't believe in bisexuality for the reasons I raised. But if you come to me and tell me that you are bisexual for none of those reasons and just because you are then I'd say ok no problem. I wouldn't argue or try to change your opinion, it is what it is. Mine is what it is.
Exactly the same thing here, I am not saying anyone is wrong for what they believe. I am merely saying that it is not what I believe.
You told 5itb that her theory on heterosexuality not existing is ludicrous, yet you say you won't argue. Seems you'll argue with her theory, but won't accept people's arguments against your theory of bisexuality not existing.
You're telling people that their own sexuality doesn't exist!
Pregnant for the first-time?
Not sure where to start? We can help!
Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!