Public break up, much? tsk tsk!
In what other context would be tolerate this kind of logic? "I'd prefer my child were white because life would be easier for them", "I'd prefer my child not have red hair and glasses because they'd be less likely to get teased", "I'd prefer my child be male so they have better employment prospects"...
No. In those instances we see discrimination as the thing at fault, rather than the trait that is being discriminated against. It saddens me when people don't apply the same thought process to homosexuality.
Worried that your homosexual child will lead a more difficult life? Then don't wish to change your child... change the world.
Regarding the bisexuality being greedy or 'confused' - I'm sure there are some people who are bisexual who are in an open relationships. Just as there are heterosexual people who are in an open relationship. Being bisexual does NOT mean that somebody will jump at the chance to sleep with any old person.
That's just not logical to think that way. It's like saying "I'm heterosexual so I will sleep with ALL men and I'm confused because I'm attracted to my DP *but* I watched a movie with a man in it the other day and I felt attracted to him".
People can be bisexual and be in a commited relationship with a person of either gender. I think most people can admit they're in a relationship but have felt attraction to someone else (even while just at the cinema) at some point.
I consider myself bi sexual and don't feel ambivalent about if i'm really gay or not. Not at all. I think i probably tend more towards relationships with men though but definitely have found myself attracted to women.
I think it's entirely possible to be bisexual.
Re read my post because I did not at any point bag anyone. If anything I said all to the contrary. The fact that you took such offense from something that wasn't even directed at you as I don't even know you is a reflection more so on you than it is on me.
I have no problem with either "decision". As I said, I have friends on both sides.
I dont ever want to hear a person say i wish i was straight so things would be easy, They shouldnt have to change anything!! they should be able to just be who they are openly and still be safe! And happy!
They should never have to worry about bullying ever, and i hope that that change happens real soon!!
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