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    Quote Originally Posted by Pru40 View Post
    What about a planned VB? As is an induction 2 to 3 weeks early before bub gets too big, and an epidural for the pain?

    I wouldn't suggest an induction without pain relief, it's more painful than natural labour.
    I don't mean to sound all negative but an induction that early has a higher chance of ending in an emergency CS.

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    Pru, I guess that's another option I need to consider. My ob said the earliest she would induce me is at 39 weeks though (Bec, probably for the reason you mentioned), but that's better than possibly going overdue, which I have done on a number of occasions. Definitely will consider pain relief if I do go VB.


    Thanks to everyone who has posted and please keep your experiences coming!
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    Am keeping an eye on this interesting thread. I had an emmergency CS for #1, but due to it being caused by bubs I could still go VBAC for #2. I've heard horror stories with VB's and cos I had such a great CS and recovery am interested to see these compared aswell to help my decision for this time.

    I hope you get all the info you need to make your decision.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Bec~ View Post
    I don't mean to sound all negative but an induction that early has a higher chance of ending in an emergency CS.
    Thanks, I didn't know that! Wow, I'm retrospectively freaked out.

    My twins were induced at 37 weeks because I had such a bad experience the first time around I couldn't leave anything to chance, I seriously wanted to be monitored every minute in a private hospital. At the time, I had a very qualified doctor, a fetal medicine specialist. Perhaps a terrified labouring mother is more dangerous??

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    I was induced with my first it was planned as I had GD for me it was a great experience all over in just over 4 hrs yes it's intense but worth it!!! C sections scare the pants off me cause the thought of having an epidural really freaks me out!!! I'm assuming I will be induced this time around again cause I have GD but will play it by ear. Best of luck with your choice - my research tells me that both vVB and CS have their own risks not one more so than the other. At least you know you are built to give birth naturally.

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    i had a c/s first took my over 6 months to get completely back to normal

    My vaginal was soo much better a bit of bruising but i was fine and she was 9 pound 2

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    My first was an emergency c/s and my 2nd a vb.
    The c/s was tough, but the 20hr labour then having the c/s made it worse. I felt like I'd been hit by a bus, I didn't get out of bed for a whole day, when I did to go to the loo and shower it was so hard. It was painful to sit and get up and I couldn't really walk properly.
    I was also allergic to the morphine which made pain management harder.
    It took a good 6 weeks to really recover with no more pain, although I still felt numb for a few more months.

    My 2nd was a drug free 5hr labour and yes it was pretty intense, so I understand the panic regarding the labour, for me too I think it's the worst part!! And I don't think I could do it again either..., but in saying that once she was out, I didn't need any pain relief, I was up showering 2 hrs later, I could walk no problem, I was home day 2, cooking, cleaning, shopping and looking after the kids. The recovery just didn't compare, I didn't have to 'think' whether I could pick up things or move quickly. Of course it was still a pain going to the loo the first 2 weeks, dtd was off the cards for 3 months and hemoroids thanks to pushing the baby out :/
    But still way easier than my c/s.

    I've heard an elective c/s is easier and avoiding labour *I think would make a difference cause the long labour then emergency cs was rough.

    Also to consider is you don't get to see and hold the baby straight after a c/s, not the same way you do with a vb anyway, there is no recovery room after a vb and the baby stays with you the whole time. For me, not seeing my 1st after the cs still makes me upset almost 3 years later, time I will never get back

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily of the Nile View Post
    Also to consider is you don't get to see and hold the baby straight after a c/s, not the same way you do with a vb anyway, there is no recovery room after a vb and the baby stays with you the whole time. For me, not seeing my 1st after the cs still makes me upset almost 3 years later, time I will never get back
    That depends entirely on the hospitals procedures and if everything's okay.

    With both of mine they were pulled out (I asked that they be wiped down first, but normally they won't be) and given to me for skin on skin, they came with me to recovery where they didn't leave me once. They were weighed and measured next to my bed once we returned to the ward.

    I'd ask your hospital what their procedure is regarding this.

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    That depends entirely on the hospitals procedures and if everything's okay.

    With both of mine they were pulled out (I asked that they be wiped down first, but normally they won't be) and given to me for skin on skin, they came with me to recovery where they didn't leave me once. They were weighed and measured next to my bed once we returned to the ward.

    I'd ask your hospital what their procedure is regarding this.
    I did and no, this wasnt allowed. Both were big hospitals in Melbourne.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlissedOut View Post
    That depends entirely on the hospitals procedures and if everything's okay.

    With both of mine they were pulled out (I asked that they be wiped down first, but normally they won't be) and given to me for skin on skin, they came with me to recovery where they didn't leave me once. They were weighed and measured next to my bed once we returned to the ward.

    I'd ask your hospital what their procedure is regarding this.
    Yeah I was the same. Bub was taken to a bench over to my right and cleaned and mini checked over, then bought over to me for cuddles. Then he followed me to recovery with my DH and then followed me back to the ward, even fit in the elevator together.


 

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