Don't know if anyone is going through, or has been through, anything similar but this is really getting me down.
The last year and a half DH seems to ignore the fact that I exist in my own right as a person. He never seems to want to talk to me, hang out, watch a dvd or even eat dinner in the same room. He never initiates sex and I have to harass him for it. Most nights he won't even come to bed with me, he sits up in the lounge room using his laptop and falls asleep out there. I don't know what's wrong with me but it makes me feels so undesirable. I wanted my husband to be my best friend and someone who I could talk to and spare time with. It feels more like we are flatmates who have children together. Last year I had a 'fling' of sorts with a male co-worker, I guess a short lived emotional affair, he seemed interested in me and wanted to talk and I loved the attention and the fact someone wanted to hear what I have to say. I severed all contact when he tried to kiss me because it was a boundary I didn't want to cross but it was really a wake up call that something is missing at home.