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    Hi All,

    This may be a TMI post and if your uncomfortable answering I totally understand.

    Just wondering on average how many times a week are couples intimate?

    Im 28 weeks pregnant and have a two year old. I think hubby is getting a bit upset regarding the amount I feel like it as Im so tired. So im just curious as to how others are coping with this.

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    Once a week. We would both like to do it more but with his shifts it makes it a bit hard..

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    3-4 times a week average

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    Well that's the time frame I am running on too! Lol Trying to fit the time in is so hard, being pregnant and having a 2 year old.

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    Once every 2-3 weeks.

    3.5 month old + 3.5 year old = too tired and busy for regular sex!

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    We are intimate with each other at least once a day.
    S3x, it depends. We can go months without and other times we do it every day.
    Intimacy doesn't have to be only s3x.

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    Im 28 weeks pregnant too.. For the entire pregnancy its been 5 times..so less than once a month!
    I dont feel up to it

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    Firstly don't put pressure on yourself to do it, if your just not up to it/don't feel like it. Your dh needs to understand that pregnancy is exhausting and two year old are too.

    To answer your question ATM it is 3 to 5 times a week. With other pregnancies it been months between. It all depends on how much i feel loved, how much help i am getting with the house kids etc, my hormones

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    It has become boring and crap for me so not very often. I'm 16w4d pregnant now and it's only been a few times in the last 3-4 months. But DH finally understood where i was coming from a few weeks ago, as I initiated it when I actually felt like it, and it was great. I told him I can do it more often but it'll be very average to crap, or he can get it only every now and then and it's great. He saw my point and doesn't mention it anymore or harass me for it.

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    for now? umm our last time was 2 weeks ago, and then a think 2 weeks before that :S

    We normally aren't nowhere near that bad but during pregnancy i'm either too tired, too ill, too sore, too sensitive, not in the mood after looking after DS all day etc etc.


    Poor DP i think i've broken several promise 'tonight' in the last week


 

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