I hate that question too. After experiencing this I never again will ask if someone is having children/more children. As I have a career that I work hard at I also get comments around making a family more of a priority in my life rather than just work (if only they knew huh!).
I have to bite my tongue and stop saying what I really want to say.... Now I go with 'when the universe decides its time i guess' or 'when the cabbage patch i planted in the backyard finally grows me a little cabbage patch kid' Ppl laugh and seem to forget the question pretty quick lol.
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