Its interesting how some friends cope well, others dont, some shut down etc. Sometimes I wish we hadnt said anything to anyone, but then I think that would be worse. Just all part of the process really.
I was a wreck after our azoo diagnosis too. And then when my friend with the 7 announced number 8, I went into melt down for quite a while. I still can only see her when Im feeling strong. And not because she isnt fantastic with everything, just because its tough.
Im the mean time, we all soldier on hey! Whatever that means on any given day!