Dh isn't home during light hours during the week so it's done on the weekend. We literally have a council strip of grass to mow so the mowing part doesn't take long but every couple of months he needs to trim the hedges too so that takes a while. He does his best to do it early (but after the neighbours awake) or in the afternoon so we have time together. Any more yard to look after and I'd dare say we'd pay someone. DH works 80-90hrs a week at least. Family time comes before the yard. My neighbours recently mowed it for us out of the kindness of their heart because DH was away.
I do housework during the week and wash every day, including weekends. Although now I'm at uni my mum does the bulk of the housework when she's watching my kids so I only have to do maintenance. It's wonderful