I saw my FS today 5 wks after my D&C. The tests showed no chromosomal abnormalities with our little boy and no bacteria or infection. No answers as to why my membranes ruptured at 14 wks. But he does think its cervical incompetence and next time I get pregnant I'll be having a cervical stitch put in at 12 weeks. I'm really upset he's making me wait till mid Sept for the frozen blastocyst transfer as he insists I must have 2 cycles. So it's back on the pill today as I don't get my periods on my own. I'm going to use the next 2 months to hit the gym, clean up my diet and lose some weight. Don't know how I'll survive waiting so long but he begs me to trust him and that he knows what he's doing. I suppose it is normal to wait several months after a miscarriage. Now the horrible part is he says that next time I get pregnant I am to stop work from 12 weeks and bedrest from the time the stitch goes in. He says I will definately be in hospital from 20 weeks pregnancy and possibly even earlier so that they can try get me to a stage where the preg is viable after 28 weeks. I'm shocked as I have no idea how I will get off work from 3 mths preg and how does one survive in hospital on bedrest for 4 1/2 months???? I want a baby desperately but don't know how much more I can cope. Feeling very depressed after the appointment.