It's hard for the husbands. I remember a few years ago walking in to the lounge. My husband was sitting on the floor watching tv. Then a huggies nappy ad came on. It had Father huging his bub. He just started crying. That was the first time I really thought how much it effects them as well. Sometimes they don't know how to talk as women do. As a couple you have to talk to each other and say how you are feeling. There was times when I was not sure if we would make it. But we did and we are closer for want we have been through.
It is so hard to say positive. I was going through my first cycle when my Mum was told she had cancer. I failed that cycle and 6 months later my Mum died. It was so hard to pick up the pieces and try again. Without that suport.
It really is lovely chatting to you to. I feel closer to my ivf friends than some of the friends that I have had for years. We know the struggles.
I can't wait to hear how year transfer goe's.
Keep your chin up. Are you doing a amazing job.