Stretched I'm sorry that you were charged extra it really is a kick whilst your down i know exactly how you feel. When I found out bubs had no heartbeat my ob booked an u/s for that day to confirm, when i went to medicare to claim it back i was told that you couldn't claim for both because they happened the same day. I said to the lady that it was because they were trying to confirm my m/c and she said she would look into it for me. I couldn't even be bothered with it I said no to worry i just wanted it to be over. Like you it wasn't about the money it was about the fact that when you least expect it there are constant reminders for us and it hurts. I really am so sorry you are going through this again it breaks my heart.
Luey I am sorry to hear you have to have a D&C where are you having it done? I think it is so important to have caring nurses, i had the most lovely nurse who had actually been through a m/c herself and knew exactly what i was going through it made the whole experience easier. Also please stay even if you can't try at the moment i have been in limbo myself for the last 3 months and everyone here has been very supportive, i need this place to talk about my feelings and I'm sure you need it to.
FTM how are you doing have you done another test?
Missy that made me laugh about our partners just looking at us and we are pregnant. My whole family is like that I am the unusual one that has trouble and no one understands besides my sister who had a m/c with her first bub, but even she is insensitive. I was telling her about how I was feeling about leaving the babies spirit behind and she was laughing her head off saying she is imagining a floating baby following me around. I love my sister but she can be a cow.
Del I have a habit of checking my cx position too and it is heartbreaking when you realise it is low and AF will come. I do it to check for o and when it is close to o time and my cx is low i get really ****y. My DH thinks i'm mad but i am very in tune with my body. Are you going to test again just incase?
AFM well i finally had my blood test and the results will be in next week so I am looking forward to that appt because the doc thinks I will be all set to try again. Sorry it has just been so long and I am super excited can you tell? I will find out right in time for o so i might be in with a chance this month.
I haven't started packing yet but i was talking to DH this morning and he said that i will have to start soon because we have to hand over the keys by the 7th of Sept. Here I was thinking move out date would be then and he pointed out that that is the day the new owners get to move in. Blonde moment haha. So i will have to get a move on, and we have nowhere to live so maybe I should get onto that too. Hopefully I will be pg by then and won't be able to lift anything heavy lol.