I'm sorry to hijack the thread for a minute, but I could really some good thoughts - and a share in my indignation! It's going to be a long one ...
To try and shorten things - the last day at my job is tomorrow. 98% because I can't stand working with my boss anymore, 2% because it's a sales job and I don't like sales! When I gave my notice, she said it was sad I was leaving but she was happy because we could now be friends. As a person she's okay, so I was pretty happy about it.
I mentioned to our receptionist today that boss and I might have dinner one night and she said she had to tell me something. Basically, while I was in and out of the hospital having tests to see if I had an ectopic pregnancy, if it was 'real' pregnancy tissue in my uterus, etc. boss and another colleague were talking about me. My boss said she wasn't surprised I had a miscarriage since my husband and I are so overweight! Also thrown in there was that I should just 'get over it' and get back to work already.
I was so angry at first, probably more angry than I ever have been before, but now I'm just sad. I can't believe anyone would say something like that, especially about someone she genuinely seems to want to hang out with. She even invited DH and I to the 'end of financial year dinner' even though I won't be working there!
I'm glad the receptionist told me - I don't want to be around a person like that and I definitely made the right decision in quitting even though I don't have a job to go to.
I'm sorry this is so long and confusing, I'm just so hurt. And, of course, I had to find out on the 1 month anniversary of my D&C.