Angelini welcome to the thread. Don't feel bad feeling upset about hearing other's pg announcements. We are all going thru similar feelings and they are normal
FTM - geez what a rollercoaster huh? I really hope the spotting is some kind of weird late implantation bleeding. But it does sound positive. The absence of a normal period is good
CD - hope AF shows up so you can start a new cycle and try again. I remember the 6 weeks it took my period to come back after the m/c was like an eternity. Then of course I got my hopes up I may have fallen in that month as I def o'ed. Frustrating grrr
Nic - 19 weeks is a long time, and def not normal. Have you considered seeing a naturopath? I know we were discussing it before but couldn't remember if you were one of the ones planning to see one. There are several herbs which can stabilise and bring on AF with little side effects.
Stretched - Sending all the positive vibes I can muster to keep that bubba firmly sticky.