I've been on both sides of this fence My husband and I were trying for 8 years to fall pregnant, seeing everyone else just fall pregnant so easily really did make me a bit bitter (as awful as that is to say, I got to the stage where I didn't even want to hold other peoples babies ). When we finally got our BFP my husbands best friend and his partner who had also been trying for absolutely ages broke up. It's not our fault, I know that, but it did bring up these issues for them, and now I can't help but feel like a home wrecker
I was really hoping that it might give them a bit of hope, I have the same issue as bf's partner (pcos) and we conceived naturally after I made some life style changes.
Now I'm just trying to enjoy my own very much awaited pregnancy and let others sort themselves out. Its really hard on both sides on fence and as much sympathy as I have towards people who are having problems conceiving, we haven't done anything wrong and I hate feeling any kind guilt relating to my baby.