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    Default waiting is torture

    I'm going out of my mind. Long story short, yesterday I was told my pregnancy hormones had dropped and "was I bleeding yet?". I'm not bleeding, but I now am sitting here waiting for the inevitable. How long is this going to take?? I'm trying so hard to be positive, but I just want this to be over with so we can move on and start our next cycle. I even poas today and even though there were 2 lines, the second one is barely there now. I really don't want to be sad anymore but the thought of this little bubba trying to hold on when I'm not giving it what it needs to do so is heartbreaking.

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    I'm so sorry

    It can take ages, and it can be really quick.

    It's just such a hard thing to go through, and it's so much worse when you feel in limbo, and you're clinging to hope with your fingernails.

    Sending you all the good vibes I can. Do you have someone you can think of who will be the right kind of support?
    If not, the miscarriage support thread can be helpful. Even if you just read the previous posts. It comforted me seeing that it wasn't just me feeling the way I was.


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    Quote Originally Posted by muminshock View Post
    I really don't want to be sad anymore but the thought of this little bubba trying to hold on when I'm not giving it what it needs to do so is heartbreaking.

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    Don't say this to yourself! Your body did everything it could, Hun. Annoyingly (and terribly cliche) these things just happen for absolutely no reason. You couldn't have done anything to change the outcome.

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    I am so so sorry for your loss. There is nothing i can say to make you feel better but

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    Quote Originally Posted by muminshock View Post
    not waiting anymore...
    Oh....

    I'm so sorry.

    Do whatever it takes to have time to yourself. (or whatever you think you need right now. My point being I thought I would be able to get through it while still looking after the kids at home, and it was a mistake. 2 months later and there is emotional scarring all over the place).

    We are here for any questions you have. please feel free to PM me. Anything. No matter how big or small or TMI.


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    big big hugs to you. such an awful thing to have to go thru. grieve and cry all u need to and remember you are not alone xx

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