Theres was no relationship at all thou.
His a nasty piece of work.
From the emails iv read which he sends frim different address for each email are horrible and i dont remember anything being mentioned about her other child.
She said shes taken it to the police but due to diff address and he never puts info about himself theres nothing they can do .
Just had a talk with her this arvo and shes definetely leaning more to staying and jist moving again here,
I suggested she change their names, that way all new info will have different names and may delay him finding her,
Not sure how he finds her, but she said apparently he knows many people, has alot of contacts, im not really sure.
May not post much more on this as i have my own family decisions that need to be made right now,
Iv begged her to sign up here as i dont have much advice and theres nothing i can do to help really.
Iv given her details for the site, so guess il just keep mentioning it to her and see what happens