no go to a divorce lawyer same rules don't need to be actually married saves paying twice when the first one does not know what they are talking about
Its never easy ending things, I hope he handles it well!! If you think he is going to be spiteful then I think it would be wise to seek legal advice and get all the information you need before you end things. It might also help you to make the decisions you need to make in order for the transition to be as smooth and quick as possible. It sounds like you have made peace with your decision and your doing the right thing. Wishing you all the very best.
no advice, just good luck
Just go no kids so worse thing is you have to fight over the house so find a lace to go and go get out find mr wonderful goodluck
Thanks for all the kind words ladies I will definitely look in to seeing a lawyer ASAP so I know where I stand legally.
I think he knows something up...he asked me last night if everything was ok cause I seemed distant to him. I just said no I'm fine. Need to get my ducks in line fast, cause I'm obviously a terrible actress.
Ok so I spoke to DP last night and I told him that I wasn't happy, didn't know who I was or what I wanted any more...
At first he said that he thought this was coming, he thought that I had been distant for the past week and asked me what had happened? I told him that I've had the feelings on and off for a while, but I was hoping that they would go, and they haven't and I didn't think it was fair to continue with the relationship if I wasn't 100% in it...
Any way so I don't go on forever...In a nut shell he is shocked and upset and keeps asking me not to go, that he doesn't know what he'll do without me, change my mind work through it, asks how come I didn't say anything earlier?
I don't know what else to say to him, I know it sounds crazy (after my first post) but I really don't want to hurt him, I feel like I have nothing left to give and emotionally I think I have already checked out! I was crying along with him last night but only because I was upset that I'd hurt him, not because I was sad?
I don't know what else to say or do...
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