Definitely annoying when drivers do that. The other day my DP parked close to another car on one side I even made him move the car centre because it is definitely one of my pet peeves.
But I probably wouldn't smash my door into another car (I also dont wanna do damage to my own car.) because they parked close. Even though I would be annoyed but it's a bit disrespectful.
Ive had to just climb through the other side to put my youngest in a few times. Especially annoying when I have a toddler in tow to.