I just wanted to make sure that I added that OP, if you have icky feelings, then listen to them.
Thing is, you're the only one who knows this dude to get those feelings... so I have no problems with that, but it's a bit stupid when others have replied with "OMG HE MUST BE A PAEDOPHILE!" sentiments as if they have any bloody either way.
I doubt it's his behaviour alone that's given the OP these feelings... sometimes it's a combination of behaviour, the person's general attitude/vibe and just feelings you can't attribute to anything. This behaviour alone does not MEAN paedophilia. I kiss my daughter on the lips. I'm not a paedophile. I have requested to bathe other people's children, to take them out ALONE, to carry them pretty much the entire time I'm there, etc... people go, "Oh, she's so clucky isn't she?" and giggle. Nobody goes, "Wow, OMG, paedophile just waiting to get your kids alone! Be wary!"
If I had a penis they might though.
My annoyance with this thread has nothing to do with the OP or her reaction or feelings - more the responses of others who think they can decide someone is a paedophile based on actions which are not paedophile-specific.