Well Beta one was 38, then it went to 49, so chemical was presumed and now it is at 25. So at least I know and the limbo is over. Limbo sucks!
I am going to have an appointment with my FS on Tuesday but at this stage we are going to move forward on the next FET next month.
Flying Fish, thank you so much for telling me that, I had lost hope that my second emby would turn out the same way as this one L My RE does not think it is immune issues or anything else other than embryo quality. Congratulations on your BFP, I know your first post is always hard, but thank you for giving us courage to go on.
April, I am all for second opinions, there is a really big reason that I cycle in Sydney and not Perth. Even in Sydney they can have conservative views on stuff, but there is no way they would let you transfer 10 embies without further testing. My RE doesn’t think it is necessary right now, but I have only had 2 transfers.
Getting back to conservative Perth and my worries, as you all know, we went down the path of being approved for Gender Selection, in Perth, there would be absolutely no way anyone would approve you unless it was dire. There is more leeway in Sydney.
We did the boys testing in May- of which we had to go to Melbourne to get answers and we got none, actually things are far worse than we thought they are and they have no idea why. One doctor believes that what they have has not been diagnosed yet! I truly with every part of me feels that a girl has a lot higher chance of being healthy, for this reason, we are only going to only transfer the one XX and then sit on it for a bit. So this is our last chance.
We have a paediatrician review in August and I think I am going to bite the bullet and tell her what we are doing, I have not wanted to do this in the past as I don’t want any judgment from anyone, thinking that we over react to my sons issues and that we are doing this just for a girl. The testing that we did just do, totally proves that there is nothing imaginary about what goes on with my boys. If she could write a letter saying that things are what they are, then we would get approved, but again, we have conservative Perth to deal with!
I wish I wasn’t so stubborn, I wish I could just let go and be happy with what I have, but I don’t want anyone telling me when it is my time to not have any more children. I don’t want my body telling me either (unfortunately I think it is L )
Tiggerfields: Congrats on ER, that is a great number. Let us know Fert rate xoxo
Mysweetboy: Of course stay, I don’t get on here that much, but I try to keep up to date on everyone and you are all always in my thoughts.