Oh Wish that's disappointing. I wish I was one of those people who knew what to say to make you feel better. Here's hoping they both fertilise and grow. My sister had 15 eggs (donated from my other sister) and only one little bugger fertalised. They were shattered. But it hung in there and grew, and now it's my nephew. It's not looking good, but your not out yet.
Lindy- my sister and I were talking and we think you should be an IVF consultant. Someone people go to for advice on where to turn next. I reckon there's a market for it, and you've researched it all.
Crying baby so can't write much. First day back at work today, I'd been dreading it so much. But it went fine, and DD loves care so I'm lucky. My donor has pulled out of all meetings for a chat, and seems to want to forget I exist. I don't want to proceed with the testing if he's going to pull out, not wasting 4 grand on embies I can't use. I can use them without his permission but would never do that. I just don't know what's going on with him. It's making me sad and really hurting me. Will call him in a few days since he's cancelled meetings/ignored emails.
Scruffy: by all means go for it! Any slight increase in your chances has to help, especially if it helps keep you in a positive frame of mind.
Big hi to everyone else!