I got a cut but it was not enough and they used clamps i tore even more through sphincter.

Has this happened to anyone before? I am in so much pain i had to lie on side on way home, i can barely look after my 4 day old. i feel like my life is falling apart i cant sit down on anything i just stand or lay.

also have not had bowel movement since Monday (day of birth) my muscles are clenched and wont relax plus im not keen to go either.