Ok this is a vent at a mum from playgroup.
I was there today and I was a little vague as I was out last night.
Got home about 2am after going to see some live music.
Cow face decides she needs to but her big butt into my life..
she says..dont you feel bad that you do this and you have 3 kids.
I would never do that..
I dont even get babysitters..
I only have my kids for such a short time and its a small sacrifice. I just would feel so awful. So we never go out.
I would not leave my kids with a babysitter as I dont feel the need to get away from them.
Ok so back it up sister..
Its awesome that you dont get babysitters if that what works for you.. Martyr parenting is very in at the moment..so Yay points for you..
BUT..it doesnt make you a better parent, it doesnt make me a bad one.
It makes us different...but not right or wrong.
I go out, a lot.
i use a babysitter.
I love my kids. I am sure you do too so can we just have a civil, adult conversation that does not have passive aggressive undertones about how much better you are!!!
sorry...its probably the awful hangover talking ...Bwahahahahaa