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    Default shut up cow.....vent

    Ok this is a vent at a mum from playgroup.

    I was there today and I was a little vague as I was out last night.
    Got home about 2am after going to see some live music.

    Anwhoo..
    Cow face decides she needs to but her big butt into my life..

    she says..dont you feel bad that you do this and you have 3 kids.
    I would never do that..

    I dont even get babysitters..
    I only have my kids for such a short time and its a small sacrifice. I just would feel so awful. So we never go out.
    I would not leave my kids with a babysitter as I dont feel the need to get away from them.

    Ok so back it up sister..
    Its awesome that you dont get babysitters if that what works for you.. Martyr parenting is very in at the moment..so Yay points for you..

    BUT..it doesnt make you a better parent, it doesnt make me a bad one.

    It makes us different...but not right or wrong.
    I go out, a lot.
    i use a babysitter.

    I love my kids. I am sure you do too so can we just have a civil, adult conversation that does not have passive aggressive undertones about how much better you are!!!


    Thanks.


    sorry...its probably the awful hangover talking ...Bwahahahahaa

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    Sounds like a jealous bish who can't find a babysitter

    Glad you had a good night.

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    I wails have been tempted to let down her pram tyres....

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    What a biatch. It's not like you took the kids along and left them in the car with a bottle of coke and a packet of samboys.

    Don't let her get to you,
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    Nope dont put it down to the hangover put it down to her being a complete and utter fing b***h.

    How disrespectful she was too you, I've only had DS baby sat by my mum for two hours that's only due to me being clingy not my DS lol, I would never put a parent down for having some time away, TBH I wish I could do it


    Come on hubby let's go and make baby #2 pretty please, I'm so clucky
    DSD, DS = soon to be 1

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    Lmao - hate those "super mum" types! I HAD a friend like that who doesn't even let her own mum or grandparents watch her boys unless she is there! Must be exhausting!!!!
    Yeah I love my girls and will love lilman also when he comes into the world but I also love some ME time and some one on onr time with hubby ;-) - children leave home eventually and what will she be left with then?

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    I often think parents who act like this do it because they're actually wanting to do just what they're saying they're so opposed to, but feel too guilty to do it, so put you down to make themselves feel better.

    No matter the reason though, what a b*tch. She needs to get over herself and her perfect parenting. DD doesn't usually get babysitters - rather cared for by my mother - but she enjoys it. She once had an ex-BHer babysit her and she LOVED it. She prob had more fun that night than if I was home with her.

    Ignore her. She's a jerk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpecialPatrolGroup View Post
    What a biatch. It's not like you took the kids along and left them in the car with a bottle of coke and a packet of samboys.

    Don't let her get to you,
    Haha I laughed so hard I almost woke DD.

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    Thank you all of you!!!


    Coke and samboys? thats parenting genius and way cheaper than the babysitter!

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