I think my DP is having an affair with you! Lol! I could have written both of your posts WORD FOR WORD. ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING.
DP loves playing with our DD for 10mins when he gets home but then it's "pass back to mum".
"Babe can you hold her for a minute?" Him "WHY CAN'T YOU HOLD HER?!?" <----Are you freaking serious!!! I need to pee, and brush the dreads out of my hair and perhaps MAYBE relax for 10 minutes without it being for a feed!
I also get lots of digs about how he "works so hard all day" like being a full time mum, part-time uni student and part-time hobby business owner isn't work. I almost just laughed at the hilarity of that sentence because it is so ridiculous it makes me want to cry!
I've threatened leaving and I haven't carried through for the same reasons as you; I cannot stand the though of being away from my daughter for days at a time. And I want more children and don't want them to have different fathers. It's tough! I sat down and talked to him about this seriously and he left the house really upset and remorseful....1 week later, buys me flowers "just because" 2 days after that, back to the same old jackass whinging about how I do eff all all day!
I am sorry, I have totally hijacked your post with my own mindless rant! But it is comforting to know that I am not the only one in this situation!!! Hugs to you, let me know how you go!!! xx