We have 1yr old boy/girl twins, and are contemplating having another baby. I'd love to hear from people who have done this, and what was it like. What was the age-gap? Sometimes I think I must be crazy....twins are enough! We have a nice balance now, 1 boy 1 girl, and I'm worried about upsetting that balance....would the singleton feel left out? would the two same gendered kids stick together so the other would feel left out? How would I cope with 3? I struggle enough as it is with 2. But then I think I would be a more competent, confident mother the second time around, and not stress about the small things.
Would love to hear other people's experience. Thanks in advance.