Oh yeah I hated this.. All my friends babies were easy and both of mine were awful. SS started sleep all night at 14 months 1 month before dd was born. She took even longer to sleep through (about 2 years) both waking at least 3 times a night. Between kids I was working full time and ds would scream for hours after getting home..
I cut a friend out because she had turned to a few other friends saying that I didn't know what I was doing cause having 2 babies was so easy and I had to be doing something wrong.. Goodbye to that one..
Every baby is different and we as mothers need to be supportive and not put anyone down.
Love and support your friends don't bag them out