Well i am almost 28 and about to have our 4th girl via c-sec. I also have a kidney complaint that has always been present but only stuck its head up in the past year, but in my opinion, the kidneys wont be an issue to me at this stage..
Hubby is 31 and we have both said we wont have any more kids, but we are on a farm and we both really wanted a boy to complete our family. We have accepted that we are having a girl and either way we are both excited about it. We have talked about having my tubes tied when i have this baby in May as i have a c-sec. I honestly thought i was fine with having my tubes tied, but now i dont think i am fine with it, its really upsetting me the thought that it is so final.. For the past 7 years our lives have been about having babies, getting pregnant and planning the next one. I understand it is unrealistic to have babies forever, but i feel it is the only thing we personally have that doesnt involve the family farm that i am not really a big part of.. He is against having the snip, infact outright refusal, but im not sure i am ready for either of us to make the final decision as i no i love babies and i think i would regret the decision. any advice would be great.