My DH does no housework/cooking ever. I wish sometimes he did, he just doesn't see the mess. When he does clean, like if I make him vacuum, hes sloppy. I am not a clean freak... but like it to be tidy.
It's frustrating because he doesnt realise the amount of work I put in and then him and DS mess it up in 10 minutes again.
Before we lived together he lived in his house, he had housemates and he paid his mum to come and clean his house.