DP and I are currently living with MIL whilst our second child is born. We both want to live somewhere else as living within such close proximity to our bickering and complaining families is too much. Anyway, we aren't sure exactly where we want to go.. we just need a break from here.
DP quit his job in late August '11, I kept working until November until work gave me grief for being pregnant and pretty much bullied me into leaving. DP went back to work casually since November. Since then I have been trolling ways to decrease spending, getting rid of expenses. I feel like I do this every single day. I am determined to learn from this experience.
However, DP was recently accepted to study teaching. I have no problem with going back to work to support our family so he can study. The issue being that I am 26 weeks and the likelihood of me finding a job is very very low especially on the Mornington Peninsula when summer has finished.
DP and I agreed that he would defer studies for a semester. However I got extremely agitated today when I expressed I was sick of being responsible for the finances and living with MIL is more than I'm able to deal with atm, I'm applying for jobs while DP has casual work only and had no intent on doing anything further than this prior to going to study or when our baby is born.
I feel as though I made the effort to let him know I would take care of him whilst he was studying for 4 years, why can't he make the effort of taking care of us for 4 months until the baby is born. Why can't he be responsible and see there is no permanency in casual hours?? I'm tired of being stressed out and trying to do everything I can about our situation when he just doens't care or isn't willing to do anything about it..