My DP is a Stevedore. Works on the wharves as a Crane Driver. He doesn't work very often though so will only hit about 20 - 25k for financial year. I earn $65k per year so am the primary income earner. While we have small kids this is what we decided to stick with and works for us. I wouldnt trade any of the money here for less time for either of us at home.
Good luck for your DH trying to find a new pathway at work!
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