3 times he told us only numbers, 5mil, 65mil, 25mil, he constantly gave us false hope, Starting the results call with "is she up the duff yet?" ETC full knowing the results were oligospermia. That made me think it was me and I had extensive tests, MRIs, etc. It took multiple requests to finally get copies of the 3 tests (which I got a year past VR by tricking them saying it's because I have FIs, I don't!).
I think maybe it's their training to act as if those results are going to get you pregnant, so you're more keen to Dtd a lot as they know this improves count and keeps you keen.
In all fairness, I was added to a page that was created early in this thread, half the girls got PG, one had a relationship breakdown and the other still TTC more than 2 years after VR with Dr Lekich. So with those 3 girls pregnant, there were some success. But not 80% like I was told! Not even 50 %. Maybe 30%.
Even though I feel tricked, I still feel Dr Lekich and Dr Woolcott are the best at what they do, but I believe the success rates should be honest. Measured on pregnancies, not return of sperm with little to no mobility! And honesty about just how long the process actually takes, and how many scar over. But then, if that was said, lost people would choose their services would they.
All in all now that's it done, I'm glad hubby is reversed. I'm glad he didn't have to go through MTESE (yet!) for our round of IVF just passed. But I wish I knew all this 2 years ago. Could have helped with the desperate roller coaster I was on month after month and despair at the 34 pregnancy announcements on my facebook (yes, I made a list 😭) in that time.