we gave up on the idea of falling pregnant, went for a long holiday in Bali and spent all our savings!
I think a combination of rest, relaxation, great food ... Lots of tropical fruits, and sunshine, combined with IVF maybe 'teaching' my body what to do .... And then once pregnant because I was still in Bali all of the above still applied. Or maybe it was the Balinese gods shining on me, or maybe it was just time.
No idea but it was a welcome surprise/blessing ... Whatever the cause.
I was also very nervous about every test and every week, hoping things were developing well. It got a little easier after 12 week scan, and now after 20 week scan & that bubba is moving a lot I feel much more relaxed and confident. When are your next tests?