JFB again I am sorry that you are going through this, don't like the sound of DH's binge drinking it isn't fair at all. It's such bad timing to be making any big decisions I hope that he can get his act together before he pushes you too far.
BKel I hope you & DH can resolve these issues so you can have a more harmonious and happy family life, it's all we really want.
FionaA I saw your pic & you are def not big! My FIL was so cruel about my weight particularly straight after DD. By the time she was 8wks old ended up sobbing after him calling me fat all the time & DH told him to back off. Bizzare the way some ppl carry on.
LochNessie for starting jabbing what type of cycle are you doing antagonist or long down?
Amum OMG I hate the sulking - it is such a turn off. But you're right if that's the worst of it then we're pretty lucky even if it is very frustrating
Kismet hope you had a nice B'day celebration - it's no wonder you feel so strongly about alcohol abuse - I don't think many families are unaffected by it somewhere down the line even if it's a GGGrandfather but to have a parent & sibblings is terribly difficult.
AFM on the topic of getting help I went to GP today to get a referral for a councellor or something as feeling depressed & DH told me to see a psychiatrist & that I need medication - anyway she said I sounded completely normal within 10 days of m/c as it takes time etc.