We are due bub #2 and planning on a 3-4 day stay in hospital enjoying the service & meals cooked for us. My first child will be staying with grandparents who he has happily stayed with before and are keen to have him. When did most people have the first child visit/meet bubba? It seems mean for him to be brought to see his mum and dad and new sibling and then taken away again - almost like we are teasing him, or leaving him feeling replaced. But it also seems odd for him to not meet new bubba till he is 3-4 days old???
What is everyone's thoughts?