Some people really should just not be allowed out of the house.
My SMIL told me I "hadn't really had a loss because there was no baby" after our blighted ovum. Sure. We'd had 12 weeks of being excited and getting attached, but who cares because there was never a real baby. Not sure I will ever forgive her for that. The loss was pretty bl00dy real to me.
And the nice Christian lady who told my sis that her baby would be in hell because it wasn't baptized. She lost the baby at around 14 weeks, so that was nice for her to hear too.
And now we get told we are clever for having a boy and a girl. Clever had nothing to do with it! It's just the luck of the draw and I would have been just as happy with another boy.