I'm pretty much the same. I probably put in a tad more effort these days - i feel a bit old and tired so i make a bit more effort to counteract that but i'm mostly just the same. I don't wear make up much - just lipstick/lipbalm and mascara sometimes and if i'm going out somewhere special i wear tinted moisturiser and concealer. I'm a jeans and t-shirt person or else i wear simple dresses. I'm not very fancy - my hair is almost always just tied back (i go to the hairdressers maybe once a year but hate going), i shave when my legs are exposed same as pre-kids but otherwise i'm not too fussed. I don't wear perfume.
I have been accused of looking perfect though which is so absolutely ridiculous.
ETA: missed the do you like what you see in the mirror part. I think i look okay, i don't mind my facial features but my skin is gross (acne,scars, blackheads etc) but no wrinkles which is a plus i suppose. My body is okay, not great but not bad.