ds goes to his dads every second weekend and then on a wednesday night for dinner but he comes home everytime with attitude and is rude and just horriable.
i tried sending him to his room etc nothing worked
my step dad (who is really close to ds) sat him down and said that when his dads drops him off he needs to leave the ds that goes to his dads in his dads car and bring the ds that we know and love lots and lots to the front door
it has worked heaps.. just last night he came home in the worst mood and all i had to say to him was what was it grandad said about when you come home from dads he said oh yeh i forgot walked to the front door and said mum im home and his whole attitude changed =)
the hardest thing i find is that at dads there is no rules and he doesnt like to tell him off because "he doesnt seem him very often and wants to be the fun one "