I'm always lacking in some thing, if my house is spotless i will more then likely look like a hobo
If i put in some effort to look good, i probably will skip doing dishes.
Sometimes I just run a brush through my kids hair instead of styling it, those days tend to be the one they get a random photo taken lol
Am I going to compare myself with another mother, hell no
I know I do my best, I'm not cooking 3 course meals, I'm more slummy mummy then yummy ha ha
But I'm damn happy with where I am mentally and emotionally.
Sure I know I can put more effort into some things, but I'm no super mum. I've never seen one either... So I'm guessing man made myth to make us work even harder, while the man kicks back playing call of duty, drinking a beer and question my cooking skills lol