Hang in there bethy!!
Emmylou, I know how scared you must be for your fur babies, *hugs*. I had my boy flown from NZ in May and he got so sick from fatigue and I thought I was going to lose him. He needed almost 10 litres of IV fluids to get better. Now he's even more spoilt and DH wonders what I'll be like with kids, hehe.
Mrs simmo I know what you mean about employers, grrrr. I work at the Mater hospital. Don't get me wrong it's a great place but it's too corporate within the departments. I have one team leader who is great but the other can go to the fiery pits! I'm all out of sick leave and won't use my annual leave for appointments, only EPU days. I just call in late and make up my hours by having short lunches. I went to Human Resources before I started IVF so I knew where I stood, as it's medical they can't do a thing :P