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    I justed wanted to put it out there but would you be disappointed & upset if you hadn't heard from your best friend on your birthday?

    Today is my 30th & my so called best friend since we were 13 didn't show at the get together, set a text, phone call not even a fb message.

    Am I being stuck up in being disappointed with her?

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    I'd be a little hurt...

    Happy Birthday!!!!


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    If it's out of character for her, maybe give her a call and make sure she's okay? My best friend never actually remembers my birthday. It's been the same date since we were 14 years old and she still doesn't remember it. Im used to it, so it never bothers me too much. But if she usually did and one year she totally forgot, I'd call to make sure she's okay and nothing's amiss. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! < Insert happy birthday emoticons that I can't do on my phone here.

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    Firstly, happy birthday - its my bday today as well I also admit I was a little hurt to have not heard from a very very close friend today. First time she has not made contact, usually I wake up to a bday message from her (her being 3hrs ahead of us here in wa) so I share your feelings.

    Hope you otherwise had a great day

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    yeah I won't lie I'd be hurt but then also wonder why they hadn't, where they were, If they were okay bla bla


    happy birthday too

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    My 4 best friends from high school all no showed me on my 21st and I his inside and cried for close to an hour

    Oh and happy birthday! Hope you have a fabulous day!

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    My BF is always scatty but this year she made a point of telling me she hadn't forgotten it was my birthday (about a week beforehand) but she STILL didn't even send a text/email/call/anything. So I just decided after all these years that I wasn't going to bother anymore. I'm always the one doing the reaching out and organising catch ups, so I'm just not anymore. I've seen her once since DD was born and she is almost 6 months old! My DS is almost 7 and considers her to be an Aunty, but my DD doesnt know her at all!

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    Thanks for all your comments & well wishes. No its not out of character & not the first time either (probably won't be the last) I finally got a text from her very apologetic for forgetting & just had flowers delivered to works too. Although she is making the effort it still will be hard to forget. I am just a little over chasing to see her, if its not initiated by me it doesn't happen, not really sure if that is the best way to have a friendship!

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