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    Default 7 weeks to go an so depressed.

    Everything has been going ok up until 3 days ago an now everything is all over the place just when i thought everything was going ok BAM its all gone to S**. I turned my computer on the morning to find that my dp had been on the dating site we 1st met on an has created a new profile. I am devastated but am trying to hold it together. This should be the happiest time of my life as in just 7 weeks im due with baby no.2 i am so angry an hurt all i can do is cry all the time.

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    I'm speechless! Can't understand some men?
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    child safe progams on pc's/laptops can also be used to stop wandering hubbies/partners! Some take screen shots every few minutes (timing of your choice) and save them to a place DP knows nothing about. Alternatively, they can block access to sites.

    My DP and i have had issues before with him "just flirting" online and to his old high school friends etc, but he was doing it all behind my back etc. He'd been caught a few times but after putting it all down on paper what he'd lose me, his son, financial stability, my family (his family do nothing for us) etc etc he woke up and realised his life with us was pretty great, and things have been really great these past 12mths.

    I'd be absolutely speaking to him about this. Put it all out on the table! As hard as it may be for you both to hear eachothers truths, it may be what you both need.
    I wish you the best! no one deserves what he's done to you.

    I also rang his parents when i found out he was wandering online-told them everything, and said he's now got no money, so they can pay for him to fly back home home (Brisbane).... even though my MIL is very horrible woman, she set him straight by no word of a lie!

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    I just typed out a longish response, saying things like 'he may have just been feeling neglected' and 'Men dont think sometimes and just do stupid things' ,annoying things like that...but you know what, he is way out of frickin order. You are due in seven bloody weeks and this is how he supports you!

    What a selfish idiot.

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