Diamond, you are so right I should have cut her out ages ago..I am a complete wuss when it comes to her.
I do know that she is a cow.
So thank you all, I wrote and gave her the idea of the women sit together ..and the men do.
But then she told me, that her bestie is doing the speech so she will sit there too..
Ok, I am matron of honour.. I asked her if it was just her bestie and she said yes.
She never even asked me. Oh well..so I have suggested her bestie sits up at the table and I can sit down with my other sister.