OP I'm worried this will be me as well when Fuzzy arrives next month. I don't mind time on my own, but none of my friends are UTD or have little ones, so I need to find a new set of people who have LO's so I don't go mental.
OP You have inspired me to look into some groups prior to Fuzzy's arrival, - to try to be prepared!
I am also taking encouragement from PP'ers to try several groups and not be put off if I don't "click" with anyone the first time. I hope you are too