Thanks everyone!! Hearing positive feedback fills me with confidence again lol.
I honestly can't say i would consider Harper for a girl, it just seems masculine & boyish to me. But i think that's because i know it is really a boys name, plus it just seems too popular for girls at the moment. I am worried that people will assume it's a girl when they see it written, especially following Violet on a birthday card or something lol.
I think I'm set on Freya, my only concern is that it doesn't suit a woman in her 30s or 40s but I'm starting to think it will.
Thank you all so much, i really appreciate your honesty. (: