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    Default Arrr well we are separated aren't we?

    Oh my gosh.
    So today I changed my fb relationship thing to separated. About 2 hrs later I got a text from ex saying so that's it then... Nice to find out on fb.
    I wrote back what the!!!! We are separated!


    Sorry just a quick vent. I didn't change it till now thinking I'd upset him, but to be honest I'm sick of worrying about upsetting him. I'm ready to get my life back on track and that includes not worrying about him.

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    Honestly ignore him. Sounds like he's trying to start a fight. Concentrate on yourself and the kids

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    Can you delete him from fb?

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    After we separated, I left mine as it was thinking I'd just see how long it took for him to change it on his. About a day or two after he changed his relationship status, I deleted him from my friends list on fb. It's one more thing I don't need to worry about anymore.

    I agree that it sounds like he's trying to start a fight and make you feel bad. Maybe he thought that you were separated with a chance to reconcile and by putting it out there on facebook it kinda made it official cos it was out there for everyone to see?

    Who knows how they think? Mine told me to take the kids and move back to my home town but is now taking me to court to force my return and he wants shared custody of the kids!!

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    The best thing I ever did was block FOB from my fb and buy a mobile just for him and his parents to ring! Means I get peace and quiet and can turn it off if he starts to act like a tosser

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