Thank you for the book recommendation. I will see ifI can get it on DH's ereader.
diamondeyes - I will look for the spirited child book as well. It sounds like something I need! DD is sporting a fat lip and a black eye today from being knocked over by him yesterday. Blah.
rae81 - your poor nephew We have done diet changes and haven't noticed any dramatic changes. We just try and avoid the really obvious stuff now, like MSG and colours, as they do make him a bit worse but nothing more subtle seems to make a diff.
I shall keep this thread updated as to our progress. Hopefully it will be helpful to someone.
I haven't heard back from the GP yet about a new referral or about the anxiety clinic. Hopefully I get a call today.
Thanks to all for your support, advice and hugs! It has been a real help for me