I'm SICK TO DEATH of being told this!!! Sh*t the hell up!
Seriously, do you think that helps me AT ALL???? I've lost 2 babies, I lost my hopes and dreams for my future, I've lost pieces of my heart that will never heal and I've nearly lost my relationship with my partner. Seriously, why don't you shut the hell up. You bury 2 of your tiny little babies and then come and tell me how friggin' common that feels.
This was my doctor today, who rushed me through a much anticipated appointment, with regards to testing I've had done to determine possible causes for our losses. Not only did she rush me through, she was unable to interpret or explain the results and she offended me with seriously f'ed up condescending comments like "I know you're a worrier".
I'm sorry, I don't usually go off like this. I know the above post sounds horribly distasteful but if I hold it back I am going to explode.