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    Default Do your children have a relationship with both parents?

    So, as the title says, do your kids have a relationship with both parents? Is it a positive relationship or negative relationship?

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    Nope. DS only sees his father every 6 months or so. It's a very negative relationship. Ex gets ****ed off at DS (2 yrs old) cos he can't speak. He only has 4 words and 3 of those he has learned in last 2 weeks. He is receiving speech therapy. Unfortunately ex cannot accept that there might be something wrong with DS.

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    yes both, two house but both

    wow brb atleast your DS problems can be resolved your ex however well that another story

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    My boys see their Dad every few months when he comes into the country. It is a pretty positive relationship now, but when we all lived together they were afraid of him because of his constant aggressiveness and intimidating manner. So their relationship has improved due to my decision to split.

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    No thier dad calls every few years to see how they are. Last time he talked to my son a few years before that my dd not much contact but they are ok with that. Like my daughter said before he has his new family and we have ours and everyone is happy so yeah long answer I know.


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    Yes here. Two parents, one house. Close relationships with us both. Df is a fantastic dad.

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    Yes, two parents, two seprate homes. The boys go to their dad's every 2nd week, sometimes more, he always calls on special occasions and makes sure they know that he loves them, they have a very positive relationship. And well my boys just adore me

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    Yep. We live under one roof and DH is an amazing dad, he has always been very hands on. I'm pretty awesome too

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    Quote Originally Posted by share a book View Post
    So, as the title says, do your kids have a relationship with both parents? Is it a positive relationship or negative relationship?
    yes my child does have a relationship with his father. i rarely spend time with my ex so i cant tell what type of relationship they have, i would hope it is positive.

    just because i dont have a good relationship with my ex doesnt mean that our son should suffer, i want our son to have access to his dad, if only my ex would put in the effort............

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    Yes, they go to their Dad's every second weekend and talk to him 2 nights (min) during the week. He sees them in holidays as well. They have a great relationship with my DP as well


 

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